Text for my OKCupid bio

I hesitate

to date

to fully open 

the curtains

when I first saw a one

tethered to me

exchange eyes with 

another who was

I pushed away 

the pit in me

and so did they

and then when they called me

on my birthday

to tell me they were 

now one

and that I didn’t want 

them 

to be happy

I crumpled

but thought

maybe it was 

one

a one-off

but when she did it again

I could not deny

the pit in me

to the point that I 

would tell any new heart

she’d hunt them down

if we entered her territory

and she would

after finding new curtains

new views

and opening the windows

just a crack

I fell into a river

and a new one,

she let me borrow 

her polka dot underwear

and my new her asked me

“whose are those?”

and I knew

and when she smirked 

after the clock did its thing

I knew

and when I found the rack

mangled and torn

I knew

but deny and deny 

and

(you're paranoid because of the past

you have a complex 

you caused the distance 

even

because of your delusions)

but years later 

they tell you

you were right

and they blame their lack

and you try to forgive

and climb inside

the unfamiliar pupils

of familiarity

so you don’t lack too

and it’s your fault

for being gullible

and for making poor decisions

then it’s your fault

for not opening the window

all the way.

And I tried

so many guys

and I saw

so many lies

so many

who took my

diamond inside

and sanded it down

my honestly

warped

into their fears

of manipulation

it shines strongly

albeit dully.

Living in constant fear

of being forced

to realize again

that someone’s dedication to me

is as fleeting and pointless

as life itself.

Why would I

willingly

let in

winds that destruct 

the trees of intuition

within?